Thursday, October 16, 2008

Falling In Love With YOURSELF

Sometimes, we spend so MUCH of our time DOING THINGS for Other people, and investing our time into Other people, that we FORGET to indulge in OurSelves for a bit. It often times becomes so overwhelming and consuming, having to be Happy for Others, Strong for Others, Supportive of Others and Physically Present for Others. We think of Ourselves as being Selfish when we say NO, or even contemplate the notion thereof. The stress becomes so heavy and tiring on our spirits that we find ourselves 'Falling-In-Love' with the FIRST damn person who comes along to eliviate even HALF of the burden, or who provides an 'Escape'. Right?

Well...Guess What? When you have TRULY Fallen-In-Love with YOURSELF, there is No One and Nothing on the face of the planet that can Overwhelm, Ruin, Dampen or Destroy your Spirit. The Happiness and Comfort that you soon find from within, is MORE than enough to carry you over the threshholds of despair and degradation. When people Criticize You, Judge You, Label You or attempt to Ostracize your character, NONE of it takes a toll on your being. WHY?......
...because if you have TRULY Fallen-In-Love with YOURSELF, then you have already ACCEPTED and IDENTIFIED your shortcomings, weaknesses and flaws. You have made a mental list of all that you want to improve upon, and you're taking the NECESSARY steps to do so.

Being IN-LOVE with yourself does NOT border on Arrogance or Conceit. Its a State of Mind, and a State of Existence that allows an Individual to find an ultimate level of Peace and Sanction within their own, private space. No longer do we depend upon the presense and comfort of other Men and/or Women to solidify our Happiness, Mood or Train of thought. We no longer identify our status in society by whether or not we are engaged, married or existing in a commited relationship. When you have TRULY Fallen-In-Love with yourself, you can sit in the comforts of a Dark Room, for Hours, without Sound. Your comfort comes from knowing that YOU are NOT Leaving YOURSELF to fall by the waiste side of Sorrow, Pressure or Angst. You are your own Support corner when No One else is answering their Telephone, or Replying to Text Messages. You have truly FALLEN-IN-LOVE with yourself when you seek the Pleasures of doing a Dinner, Movie, Walk, Jog and/or other Leisure activity, ALONE...by CHOICE.

To Fall In Love with Yourself is the Greatest Feeling in the World. Then, and Only Then, with God in our Hearts and Souls, can we stand in the Truth of Our Convictions, unafraid to face the demons of the World.

YOU DO NOT NEED A MAN TO EXIST IN YOUR LIFE IN ORDER TO FEEL A SENSE OF STRENGTH. A MAN CAN NOT BRING LOVE AND HAPPINESS INTO YOUR HEART UNLESS YOU ARE ALREADY HAPPY AND IN-LOVE WITH WHO YOU ARE AS A HUMAN BEING.

*DISCLAIMER*: This Post was NOT Edited before Posting. My Eyes are BARELY Open. Im Tired Socialites and Celeb.U.Tantes. GOODNITE....

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1 comment:

heartbreaker said...

all i can say is "thank you" for this, i could just hear your voice... :) but yeah, this got me thinking a little more than usual