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5 comments:
You know what interesting is that here - you're preaching to the choir. I think it's important to draw the line between the dichotomy of men who are mature and those who aren't. I think mature gay men know it's not beneficial to DATE a man on the DL. I've seen so many immature guys who love dating DL men and what that brings.
I just had a conversation with 7 other mature gay dudes last weekend. We talked about this same issue. It's interesting. But I totally think the focus for this topic should be aimed toward, not the community at large, but the subset of this community that would be defined as immature. Maturity has nothing to do with age either.
Although, you have to admit. The thrill of having sex with a DL dude is exciting. But, that's about it. After the thrill has gone, then what's next? That's why the line should be drawn there.
Great topic - we could talk about this for hours!
XEM! This goes into the hall of fucking fame brotha...living as a lesbian has taught me so many of the same things you described in this piece...it made me reflect upon my bisexual orientation...
Thanx, O and I agree this DL shit has gotta go...
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yes I totally agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
EXCELLENT!!!! Great topic! Very valid points!!
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